Signs of an unhealthy relationship

There could be no more dead chaff than a relationship heading towards a dead end. You might feel a culpable emotion of wrongdoing, a strong undercurrent of things disintegrating, when you know that a relationship is hitting the seabed.Understanding the fallacies of a relationship that has gone wrong is not easy, especially if you are already in it. The imminent signs of an unhealthy relationship that will poop out in indeterminable complexities are often overlooked. This is more to do with wanting to love stability rather than wanting to bring in stability.

These are those dangerous chimes of the knell of the bell ringing the death of a beautiful relationship…

- Just hating to talk to each other

Words have the potential to make or break a relationship. A faltering relationship will have the two people incommunicado. They would have incarcerated their words within them. Only speech, and communication can give clarity. They are like fog lamps to navigate in murky weather. The first signs of an unhealthy relationship are lack of communication. When the two people don’t talk to each other, it’s apparent that they don’t want to be with other, and there’s some serious lack of compatibility.

- Asking for too much

Asking for too much might be a sign of too much bonding. It can also be a sign of trying to ask for a kind of emotional compensation…indirectly. An unsatisfied relationship might crave for an element of compensation that is outside the purview of a relationship, and very often unreasonable.

- Insipid attraction-o-meter

Attraction is not always physical…it could be at so many levels. There is emotional attraction, personality attraction, and so on. Attraction-o-meter is a gauge to measure the level of such attractions. When a relationship is hurling downhill this meter falls flat on the chin…in other words turns out absolutely disgruntling results. A falling relationship will have very low attraction levels within. There could be absolutely no physical attraction as well. Any physical intimacy will be felt as forceful, and not consensual.

- Turning on the trivial torrent

A trivial torrent is a torrent of rage that pours into the sacred garden of a relationship due to trivial issues. Trivial issues will evoke callous emotions of ego and acrimony only in falling relationships. A relationship with a larger focal length and higher horizons will have perfected the art of ignoring the negatives.