Can you get your Ex back?

Most times a broken relationship might be like a broken glass tumbler. You can use the tumbler, but the crack still remains.But all is not lost in a failed relationship. Agreed, that most failed relationships are like spilt milk, or in other words irrevocable…but humans can err…. everybody errs…there is always provision to forgive, or ask for forgiveness.

Whatever be the case, the end is never the end, till you decide so. As yourself….why did you break off? Is it because of too trivial an issue, or something big and hard to forgive?

Do you also have other stakeholders in the relationship, like for example, children, parents etc?

Relationships are never easy. They take a lot of time and effort. It is easy getting into a relationship, but tough to maintain one.

What are the causes that a relationship can break?

- Infidelity
- Lack of compatibility
- Financial instability
- Career interests
- Misunderstanding
- Lapse in communication
- Others

What questions you need to ask yourself before you proceed to redeem a fallen relationship?

- Why did it go wrong? What were the possible causes…it is infidelity, lack of compatibility, financial instability, conflicting career aspirations, misunderstandings, communication paucity, or anything else?
- Am I to blame?
- Is it worth getting back a fallen relationship?
- How will it help me?
- Will I get hurt again…. or will I hurt the other person again?

What you can do to get back your ex?

- Firstly investigate if your ex is still single and ready to talk with you
- Don’t talk terms…no relationship is based on terms and conditions
- Try to get in touch with your ex through a common friend. Often your ex will find it difficult to re-kindle any ties with you. You both might be in an embarrassing situation.
- Try to set up a meeting. Be bold and courageous, and call up you ex. Ask you ex to come to a meeting point. Take the matter head on.
- Be apologetic if you are the culprit. Otherwise get ready to talk to you ex, and explain to him or her, the things about the relationship that you did not like, and how it can be rectified
- It is never late to re-unite and re-kindle the romance in a fallen relationship.